Monday, October 08, 2007

Those good old days....

I just came back from Kuala Terengganu last night.

Even though I go to KT very frequently, the most recent trip was rather…. emotional.



I have the chance to meet with 4 individuals, all in their 70’s, a Sikh, an Indian, a Chinese and a Malay. They are leaders in their own community. And they have been leaders for decades. Even though they are 3rd generation immigrants, to me they are Anak Jati Terengganu who were born in Terengganu, grew up in Terengganu and most importantly contributed in various ways to their community.



They are very proud of Terengganu, and they are proud to be orang Terengganu. The community has been living in harmony with each other for hundreds of years! They still practice their own customs, traditions, language and religion. But, when I asked each of them what was their most favorite food, Nasi Dagang were their answers, without even thinking.



These uncles grew up like very good friends regardless of their skin colors. They went to school together; played together they even visited each other house and makan. They are like brothers. Some of the Chinese men and women even had their very own Terengganu Malay names, like Salleh (Pok Leh) etc!



I asked my nephew who live in Terengganu the number of Chinese friends he has.

The answer: Tak dok (tak ada, as in non, zero, nil, zilch)

I think racial integration and harmony was greater then than now. It bugged me until today. We are not progressing! in fact we are digressing judging from how polarized our community has become.

Don't you wonder why?



*images owned by Dato' Wee's family

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

i'm VERY integrated ... with lots of delicious chinese friends !

;-D

StaRshOOter said...

probably because of the race to be who's who and the material greediness...
probably....
just probably...

Anonymous said...

what polarize? the GROs i rub shoulder with are chinese.

shemeq said...

red planet:
oh well, sounds like a nice buffet to me! masyarakat majmuk!

starshooter:
i blame the politicians.

zain hafsham:
oh, that industry is very global. only chinese meh? what about the russians, esatern europeans etc....?